Netflix & Chill

So I was getting to know a guy and we had been seeing each other off and on…more off than on due to changes in both of our work schedules. I had been working a later shift at my job and not getting home until around 10 o’clock at night or later on most evenings and he was on extensive travel with his job on top of working a part-time, evening job, which hindered us from seeing each other very often.

Well, he called me as I was on my way home from work on a Tuesday night. He shared that he missed and wanted to see me and invited me to go with him to the bar for drinks. I asked if we could get together some other time because I was not in the mood to go out after having had a long day/night at work, it was getting late, and I had some paperwork to finish. He asked if he could come over instead and perhaps watch a movie [Netflix!]. I was reluctant at first and expressed that I wouldn’t be good company by reiterating my need to finish paperwork. He said he didn’t mind and just wanted to see me. [Fine with me!]

He had been to my home before, so it wasn’t a big deal to me; however because it was late, I wanted to let him know that sex was not an option. I made a pact with myself that I was not going to be having sex with someone unless we were in a committed relationship and I needed him to respect the fact that I was NOT going to sleep with him at that time. [And no, we had not had sex previously.]

Me: Hey, you’re cool and all and I like you, but I don’t want you to think that sex is going to take place by you coming over here at 11 o’clock at night, which is considered booty call hours for some.

Him: [He laughs] Nah sweetheart, it’s cool. I’m not coming there for that. We always have a great time together and it’s been a while since we’ve seen each other. I’m just coming to see you.

Me: Ok. I just want to make certain that we are absolutely clear because I don’t want you to think that we are going to be doing anything beyond watching a movie and me doing paperwork.

Him: I get it, seriously. We’re cool. We can go as far as you want things to go…I’ll let you take the lead on that because I’m not going to take it there. I’ll be on my best behavior.

Me: Ok

Him: I would like a favor though.

Me: What is that?

Him: Do you mind if I stay there tonight so I don’t have to drive home super late?

Me: That’s fine as long as we are clear on what I said about the sex thing.

Him: It’s cool sweetheart. I read you loud and clear.

He arrived and all was great. We watched some funny movies, I finished my paperwork, and we caught up…It was so good to see him again.

Fast forward to bed time…

We got under the covers and he leaned over to give me a goodnight kiss, which I thought was going to be a peck on the lips. However, this kiss turned into a massive tongue down with him quickly getting on top of me and licking my neck while his hands began roam into forbidden territory as he tried to remove my clothing. [What the F***!] I became annoyed because I told this dude 1,000 times before he came over that I was NOT going there with him and clearly that all went out of the window. So I pushed him off of me. [Seriously dude? I told you what was NOT going to go down tonight. I gave you an out. You didn’t have to come here.]

To make matters worse [yes, there is a worse] when I pushed him off of me, the covers came off of him and that’s when I noticed it. Although this dude had a HUGE penis [I could see his erection through his shorts], his d*** stunk to high heaven. [What in the entire f***????!!!!??]

This date is OVER!

So let’s recap…

1. I told this dude that I was not going to have sex with him during our pre-chill conversation and he said he would respect that.
2. He tried to “seduce” his way into having sex with me and even tried to remove my clothing after I told him that I was not going to have sex with him
3. He came over to my home and tried to have sex with me with a smelly ass d***
4. He came over to my home and tried to have sex with me with a smelly ass d*** after I told him several times in advance that I was not going to have sex with him

Where they do that at?

Sincerely,

Not Falling For The Netflix & Chill Ever Again

P.S. I went to a department store the very next day and bought a new comforter set because I wanted to rid my bed of any remnants of his d*** funk.

 

How would you have handled this situation? Was he out of line? Would you speak to him after this incident? If a person tells you that they are not interested in having sex with you, do you respect their wishes or continue to try your hand?

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