So I met this guy at a mutual friend’s cookout and we really hit it off. He was tall, handsome, and really made me laugh. We spoke on the phone a few times and discussed our relationship statuses. I let him know that I was single and wasn’t seeing anyone…he echoed my remarks. On this one particular evening during my drive home from work, he called me, but I could hear a little tension in his voice as if something was wrong and the conversation went something like this: Him: So how was your day? Me: My day was pretty good and yours? Him: Oh my day was good….So you’re…