My husband called me “an un-supportive wife.” He said I didn’t support him in his pursuit of his dream career. We’ve had many arguments in our 10+ year relationship, but this comment insulted and hurt me more than anything he’s ever said to me. All I do is support him. I couldn’t believe he just uttered those words. I was shocked to silence when he first spat that out at me. I looked around in disbelief that he could actually feel that way. I looked around at the janky old apartment in Jersey City (above my mother in law, mind you) that I agreed to move into…