So I had just moved into a new neighborhood and met this guy while I was out one day doing a little shopping. I was excited to meet him because I didn’t really know anyone on that side of town and of course it was a bonus that he was cool, laid back, and quite handsome. Anyway, we went out to dinner a few times and talked on the phone often. On this one particular evening, I was on my way home from an event and my new friend invited me to stop by his apartment. I had never been to his place before since he always picked me up…