We decided to meet up and go on our first date. I told him I would meet him in Baltimore (which is where he lived….about 45 miles from my home) since I would be out that way. He agreed. I met him at his house, which really was his dad’s house, but we’ll save that story.
The Initial Meeting
I walk to the door, he opens it, and is all smiles. Nice smile BUT….the dead tooth in the front, not so much!
However, I’m not a superficial girl. (I enjoyed his conversations on the phone and he didn’t show any teeth in his online pics so I wasn’t going to let 1 tooth block a possible blessing)
He complimented me on my appearance and then asks “so what do you want to do?” In my head I’m saying “Dude you can’t be serious! I came out here…YOU should have a plan!” So I respond to him by saying “I thought you said we were eating dinner”. He says ok and says he has the perfect place. Cool.
We leave his house and I walk towards my car to follow him to the restaurant, but he says he wants to drive me like a “gentleman should”. So against my better judgement, I get into his truck.
Good convo in the truck and he continues to compliment me. We begin to talk about our friends and what we do for fun. He starts to tell me about his ‘best friend’. How they have each others back and blah blah blah. Then he says he and his best friend went out the and proceeds to show me a picture of them since it was laying on the seat. It was a cabaret pic…yes with Moët bottle backdrop. 0_0 The picture was of him with a woman and they were extremely bunned up.
I look at the pic, then look at him and say, “So y’all are just friends?” He says “yes”.
Once we get inside the restaurant, the subject changes and we’re talking about family. He reveals that he has 3 daughters…all have different moms and two of them are what you call “Project” or “Irish” twins…you know, 2 different moms, but kids were born in the same year. I’m literally sitting across from him looking in disbelief.
As if the conversation couldn’t get any worse, he proceeds to dig his hole deeper by trying to explain the situation with him and his BFF. He tells me that she was his jump off while he was in a relationship with one of his baby’s mothers. Once he got out of his relationship, he became the BFF’s jump off while she was in a relationship…this cycle continued for 2years.
Finally, we’re leaving the restaurant. I haven’t said much and I’m ready to get to my car and leave. Once we get in his truck I say” just curious, why haven’t you two tried a relationship?” He says “she has a man”. I told him he should pursue a relationship with her. He then tells me he wants to see what happens with me. [Ha!!!!]
But that’s not the part that truly ended the date.
He looks at the time and says , “Aww man! It’s almost time for her to get off from work. Do you mind if we go pick her up?” (referring to his BFF)
At this point, I’m just in utter shock. I tell him, “Yes, I do mind. Please take me to my car.” He pleads for me to let him pick her up. But I had endured enough. I politely told him I wasn’t comfortable and insisted that he take me to my car. He got the hint that I was serious. So, he took me to my car and I got the hell outta there.
Needless to say, I deleted my online dating account.
Side note: To this day he still sends me random texts with his pic from random phone numbers. Smh
Sincerely,
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