So I reconnected with a guy that I met about a year prior at a friend’s party…He found me on a social media site and we began to catch up over the next couple of weeks. We’ll call him the Chef. Chef called me on a Monday offering to make me dinner on Friday of that week [YESSSSS! #WINNING]. I was totally gushing on the inside because 1) I absolutely LOVE a man in the kitchen and 2) I appreciate a man who takes the initiative to prepare a home cooked meal. So, it was a date…Friday at 7pm. He told me he would be making steak and shrimp and…
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Asian Persuasion
So I had been dating this bi-racial guy (half black, half Chinese) off and on for a few months. He was fine as hell; however, I was a little apprehensive about dating him initially for stereotypical reasons [I was afraid he would be too little in the middle], but I gave him a chance. We didn’t see each other consistently because we both had strenuous work schedules, travel, etc. He gave me a call when he returned from business travel and we went out for drinks at a restaurant on my side of town to catch up. We decided to take the party back to my place where we immediately…
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Hoe Hump
So one of my friends told me that his girlfriend wanted me to go out on a double date with her best friend. I had heard stories that this “best friend” was always causing drama when they were out together as well as this chick being a “hoe”. I agreed to take one for the team and go out with this chick, but only because my friend asked me. I am not into dating someone who is so open to sleeping around with just anyone very freely on a regular basis. I understand that people have their moments when they are sexually free, but you cannot be like this with…
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Google Voice
So I was chatting with this guy online and DAAAAAAAAAMN he was fine…well at least according to his pictures he was [lol]. He was tall (about 6’4), great smile, good hair [ugh! I can’t believe I just said that] and was a bit of a snazzy dresser. As time went on, he asked for my number so that we could carry on the conversation offline to which I obliged and he texted me. [UGH!!! Why ask for my number if you’re just going to TEXT me? #PetPeeve] Anyway, he finally decided to call, but abruptly hung up and texted me. Him: Wow I get a google voice number though. SMH…
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Valentine’s Day Disaster
So I was on my way to Europe, but had a layover in New Jersey. On my layover flight from DC to Jersey, I was gonna tune everything out and plug in my headphones, but the guy next to me decided to strike up a conversation [mother f*****!] He was not at all my type from a physical standpoint (his head was MASSIVE and his shoes were all the way run over), but he was very cool and I’m always down to connect with new people. Anyway, we had the typical ‘where are you from, where are you going, what do you do’ conversation. He disclosed that he was a…