So I met this guy at a friend’s party and we hit it off. He was a gawjus [gorgeous] chocolate man…nice body, dressed well, smelled good, and he was funny. [Lord knows I love me a funny man!] He asked me for my number and we kept in touch after the party. Since I had a habit of going on dates with limited pre-discussions [i.e. not enough pre-date screening], I wanted to take the time to converse with this guy to learn a little bit more about him before going out.
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Netflix & Chill
So I was getting to know a guy and we had been seeing each other off and on…more off than on due to changes in both of our work schedules. I had been working a later shift at my job and not getting home until around 10 o’clock at night or later on most evenings and he was on extensive travel with his job on top of working a part-time, evening job, which hindered us from seeing each other very often. Well, he called me as I was on my way home from work on a Tuesday night. He shared that he missed and wanted to see me and invited me to go with him to…
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Wipes
So my boo was on his way over for some much needed extracurricular activities [bom chika wah wah!] and it was EVERYTHING! He knows that I’m very anal (pause) when it comes to after sex cleanup. I’m usually the one to get up and grab the baby wipes for us, but on this particular night, he volunteered to do so [Awww my boo gets me! Love me some him.] We cleaned ourselves and off to sleep we went. I got up the next morning to get ready for work and went into the bathroom. As I wiped the sleep from my eye, I noticed my container of lemon fresh Lysol disinfecting wipes…
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Mr. Africa
So I was leaving a friend’s party and got a call from a guy that I had met previously online. Fortunately, he was literally 3 blocks away at a local bar, so I decided to meet up with him before heading home. I walked inside the bar and G** DAMN this dude was all kinds of delicious. He was 6’4, 1,000,000% muscle, nice juicy lips, caramel complexion, he dressed nicely AND he smelled good [I’M WEAK!]. We began to chat over a couple of drinks and he started to tell me about his background and how he was proud to be African so much so that he decided to play…
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UnHappy Hour
So the only thing I learned that night was that maybe I should have stayed at home… In a way I am glad this date happened, because it was in the midst of mainly men tripping about my first post stating that a first date could cost $200. Even though that was not what it was about at all, most men (broke, insecure, not ready to date yet) saw only that part. Well I had a date last night that proved that women usually aren’t the one tallying the tab, but men are. The guy here, I’ve been patient with for a couple of months now. Only because he is…
