So I’ve known this guy for quite a few years and we would link up sporadically for drinks and a fun time [Not sex, but an actual fun time outside of the bedroom. Hello! That actually happens you know.] This one time a while back we went out, got super drunk, and made out in his car….that was the first time I experienced the penis [dun dun dun]. The Plot Thickens, But Not His Penis When I felt it, it felt like a pencil, but I thought to myself “this can’t be real”, so I fondled him some more to make sure that was his penis…this dude didn’t even stop me…
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Repost: How I Discovered My Husband’s Love Language
My husband called me “an un-supportive wife.” He said I didn’t support him in his pursuit of his dream career. We’ve had many arguments in our 10+ year relationship, but this comment insulted and hurt me more than anything he’s ever said to me. All I do is support him. I couldn’t believe he just uttered those words. I was shocked to silence when he first spat that out at me. I looked around in disbelief that he could actually feel that way. I looked around at the janky old apartment in Jersey City (above my mother in law, mind you) that I agreed to move into…
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Guest Post – LESSON ON LOVE: I WANT THAT OLD THING BACK…OR DO I?
“When it comes to love, we are both the victim and the perpetrator of the crime.” – Loveology, John Mark Comer. Last week I had the pleasure of attending the live broadcast of “This Date Is Over Radio Show“, an internet radio show about dating and relationships. The topic of the show was “Losing Attraction” i.e. what to do when your mate is losing interest. Having experienced this a few times out in the dating field, it sparked some reflection. Everybody fears being vulnerable and that’s why in relationships we take on the dual roles of “victim” and “perpetrator” or defender and protector. Not only do we not…
