So I have known this girl since undergrad (so about 15 years) and the timing was always off for us: either I was clueless and naive or she had a boyfriend when I came to my senses.  Anyway, we reconnected and started spending time together going to happy hour, movies, dinner…the regular stuff. As time went on, our feelings grew stronger and we spent a lot more time together at her place and mine. [Cue porn music.]  Things were going well, sex was GREAT [much better than expected], communication was consistent. I teleworked on Friday so that she could stay at my place and we had a GREAT weekend together.  Monday…