So the holidays are right around the corner and you’re in a bit of a quandary: “Do I buy my new love interest a gift?” The two of you haven’t been dating for very long [less than 6 months] and you don’t know if it will progress into a full-blown relationship, but you REALLY like this person, so what do you do? Of course, you are under no obligation to buy anyone a gift and there’s no guarantee that you’ll receive one in return, but I recommend getting a little something for your new love interest to show they were in your thoughts this holiday season. You gotta play to win and, in my…
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Bosom Buddies
So a guy that I dated a few years prior resurfaced and we clicked instantly. It was like old times, but 1000 times better. We both picked up a little weight in between time, but that didn’t stop us from rekindling the flame. Anyway, we were inseparable…talked to each other all of the time, went on wonderful dates…we were both smitten and I was soaking up all of those loving feelings. One night, he was dropping me off at home after an amazing date and he planted a kiss on me that completely took my breath away. It was magical and at that point, there was no turning back. We…
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UnHappy Hour
So the only thing I learned that night was that maybe I should have stayed at home… In a way I am glad this date happened, because it was in the midst of mainly men tripping about my first post stating that a first date could cost $200. Even though that was not what it was about at all, most men (broke, insecure, not ready to date yet) saw only that part. Well I had a date last night that proved that women usually aren’t the one tallying the tab, but men are. The guy here, I’ve been patient with for a couple of months now. Only because he is…
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Guest Post – LESSON ON LOVE: I WANT THAT OLD THING BACK…OR DO I?
“When it comes to love, we are both the victim and the perpetrator of the crime.” – Loveology, John Mark Comer. Last week I had the pleasure of attending the live broadcast of “This Date Is Over Radio Show“, an internet radio show about dating and relationships. The topic of the show was “Losing Attraction” i.e. what to do when your mate is losing interest. Having experienced this a few times out in the dating field, it sparked some reflection. Everybody fears being vulnerable and that’s why in relationships we take on the dual roles of “victim” and “perpetrator” or defender and protector. Not only do we not…
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Repost: The Tap Out
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